Some bags we carry aren’t even ours. And the moment we face what’s inside, we finally give ourselves permission to let go.
- ewelinacollins
- Sep 16
- 1 min read

Sometimes it's hard to move on because something heavy is holding you back.
With a little more self-awareness, you begin to observe your behaviour, your reactions, your patterns. You start to wonder how much anger, grief, sorrow, or fear has quietly accumulated in your body over the years.
And when you pay closer attention, you realise: much of the weight you’re carrying doesn’t even belong to you.
When you make the decision — and it does take fierce courage — to look within, the truth begins to reveal itself.
Much of the "baggage" you lug around, day after day, was handed to you silently. Through expectations. Through childhood wounds. Through other people’s pain. Through things you never asked for, but somehow became responsible for.
Sometimes, the weight you’re carrying isn’t yours to bear. It’s old guilt. Generational patterns. Childhood conditioning. Someone else’s voice in your head.
And perhaps you don’t even realise how heavy it’s been — until you finally stop, unzip it, and take a look inside.
Facing it isn’t always easy. But it is freeing.
You get to ask yourself:Why am I still holding this? Do I need it? Did I ever?
And that’s the moment you begin to let go — not because you’re giving up, but because you’re finally giving yourself permission to walk lighter.

And if you are ready to unpack what no longer serves you, I’m here to walk with you. Together, we will sort through what’s been weighing you down, so you can move forward with clarity, freedom, and renewed strength.
Your healing isn’t a luxury — it’s your right.



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